to me, names are extremely important. I think they represent more than just a labeling system--in some ways people are the embodiment of their names. Though it is not always true, lots of times names are indicative of personalities. Example: Billys tend to be sweet and insightful; Chrystals and Ambers tend to be crazy; Peters tend to be extremely individualistic; just to name a few.
Basically, I feel that names mean a lot. Maybe it's because I'm so into language, and because I think that words spoken aloud have power, and a name is something you're always hearing, directed at you. To Hawaiians, names were symbolic and treasured as well. When you entered into new phases in your life, sometimes a new name was given.
My hanai Tutu (adoptive grandmother) named me about a year ago. To be named by Kapuna is a great honor to me and my name is something I've treasured. But every time I tried to go by that name I was met with resistance somehow. I think I hadn't grown into it yet. Lately I've been using it more, introducing myself with it, thinking of myself in its terms. So, if you hear me introduce myself differently, don't be taken back. :)
My Hawaiian name: Malie (mah-lee-eh)
meaning: calm, peaceful; strong presence
And, Tutu said, it means I'm stubborn too. How appropriate.
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